Qoute #28

"I wish that when i get the chance to be reincarnated.. i already found you... so i will never be lost again and die..." -  Crisena

This is about hoping to find true love. 

There are many faces of love and true love is really hard to find and define.

For me, true love is when you symmetrically love and need each other... your mutual in ways and you both think of each others benefits. The kind of benefits you share is priceless and must not be counted over time. Its genuine... its unique and rare... 

Maybe, true love may not be seen in positive ways only... true love can also be seen when you are mutually hurt in times that you accidentally hurt each other... we are human and we are bound to make mistakes so sometimes we misinterpret each other... but for true love.. the case is that, no matter how painful it was... still at the end of the day he/she can tell himself/herself... i cannot live without him/her and i don't want him/her to get out of my life...

For true love, you cannot give too much nor too less, it must be equal. This is the hardest part of being in love. There will be expectations on both sides, and the other may be higher which makes it complicated. But for true love, we compromise. Its not how many you give as long as one compromise. If the other just give up, then it will never work out. Its tiring to work out things, but for true love, you always find ways to make it work.

When things does not work out and you broke up with each other, as long as the break up is mutual then its true love. It may be a little confusing but yes, it is true love. Why? Because both of you wanted that your partner be happy rather than staying with you. You know you cannot give what they wanted so you let go. It may also hurt a bit but as long as its mutual for both of you, it is still true love. And hey, the saying "friends can be lovers but lovers cannot be friends" will not apply to true love because if you value the person so much, you wont consider the negative things he/she have done to you so you can always consider him/her as friends. It may take a while since we need to have time to accept things but being friends with an ex is true love. The only risk is that, it must be mutual that they will only be friends and no more than that. But it will always be up to both sides if how they can manage as being friends only.

People only see love in positive ways like if couples are sweet, loving, caring, understanding, etc... all positive descriptions you can think of is considered as true love. But then again, we should also look at its negative side like pain, agony, depression, etc... all negative. Only that for negative, the way to make things work is when you mutually stay positive with each other even if things become negative.