41. Why defend yourself? Youll never please all of the people all of the time anyway. You can be doing better things with your time than trying to convince people against their will.
42. If someone disagrees with me, my job is to let him do so. It makes a life lot easier.
43. Give people the benefit of the doubt.
44. If life is a game, let people know the rules.
45. Good form is choosing to understate rather overstate. Its not competing. Its knowing you dont have to prove anything.
46. No matter how close a friendship, theres always a room for tact.
47. When we analyze and criticize others, we create distance.
48. Greater happiness comes from accepting others as they are.
49. When we are giving, we should aim to give without strings.
50. It is not your responsibility to make people happy.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Friday, October 29, 2010
Qoute #40
" I like you more today than yesterday but i'll love you more tomorrow..." - CrisenaIts me saying that i love the person yesterday and more today and love him much more tomorrow.
Monday, October 25, 2010
Friday, October 22, 2010
Qoute #39
"If its not meant to be, if its the wrong time.. if its not right...then make mistake with me!" - Crisena
Just remembered some lines that ive created while watching Benjamin Button.
Friday, October 15, 2010
Excerpt #4
31. You'll notice about confident, self-determined individuals. They dont spend their lives explaining themselves. They just do what they do.
32. Consider whether you are currently justify your actions and explains things to people which are none of their business. People are not wrong for asking. But you decide to control the situation and answer only the questions which you want.
33. Make your own decision. Dont set out to offend people, but be true to yourself. If you choose to explain yourself, do it because you want to share your thoughts with another person and not because you need their approval. Your own permission is sufficient - you dont need other people's.
34. To get what you want, you have to be more persistent than the other person.
35. State what you want and dont get sidetracked.
36. People will admire you when you make a stand though they might not agree with the cause.
37. Sometimes the best wat to get along with someone is to be absent
38. Sometimes its best to say nothing.
39. Mature people dont get themselves upset over others nasty remarks.
40. Never get in fights with pigs - you get all dirty and they enjoy it!
32. Consider whether you are currently justify your actions and explains things to people which are none of their business. People are not wrong for asking. But you decide to control the situation and answer only the questions which you want.
33. Make your own decision. Dont set out to offend people, but be true to yourself. If you choose to explain yourself, do it because you want to share your thoughts with another person and not because you need their approval. Your own permission is sufficient - you dont need other people's.
34. To get what you want, you have to be more persistent than the other person.
35. State what you want and dont get sidetracked.
36. People will admire you when you make a stand though they might not agree with the cause.
37. Sometimes the best wat to get along with someone is to be absent
38. Sometimes its best to say nothing.
39. Mature people dont get themselves upset over others nasty remarks.
40. Never get in fights with pigs - you get all dirty and they enjoy it!
Excerpt #3
21. Blaming usually becomes an excuse not to act, and inaction never helped anybody.
22. Reasons or excuses are never any consolation at the end of the ay all that counts is whether you got where you really wanted to go.
23. Happy and successful people succeed in spit of difficulties
24. While blamers concentrate on the problem, you concentrate on the solution.
25. Be tactful and tell it is like it is. Honesty with others is a sign of respect for them and a sign of self-respect - and its so much simpler.
26. We should not mistake self sacrifice for politeness
26. You are responsible for how the world treats you.
27. Others respect us to the degree that we respect ourselves.
28. There is no need to be sorry - just tell them what they need to know.
29. Peace of mind stems from understanding and accepting that few people will see the world as you see it.
30. While respecting others, be true to youreslf. If people disagree with your ideas or your lifestyle, its their business, not yours.
22. Reasons or excuses are never any consolation at the end of the ay all that counts is whether you got where you really wanted to go.
23. Happy and successful people succeed in spit of difficulties
24. While blamers concentrate on the problem, you concentrate on the solution.
25. Be tactful and tell it is like it is. Honesty with others is a sign of respect for them and a sign of self-respect - and its so much simpler.
26. We should not mistake self sacrifice for politeness
26. You are responsible for how the world treats you.
27. Others respect us to the degree that we respect ourselves.
28. There is no need to be sorry - just tell them what they need to know.
29. Peace of mind stems from understanding and accepting that few people will see the world as you see it.
30. While respecting others, be true to youreslf. If people disagree with your ideas or your lifestyle, its their business, not yours.
Excerpt #2
11. To avoid disappointment, form friendship without expecting anything in return. Do things for others without demands, and youll never be disappointed. Some people will return favors and affections and some wont.
12. If you care for people because you want to, and not because you expect something back, you wont feel crushed should they fail to return a thought or a favor. The universe is essentially fair and just. If you are giving out care and affection, good things will come back at you, though not necessarily when or from where you expect it.
13. We each must recognise our own value. If we depend on others to do it - and they dont - were constantly disappointed.
14. You can only complement someone else in a relationship if you're a complete person.
15. Taking ourselves too seriously can also mean desperately trying to make an impression.
16. The ones who really suffer are those who know inside the things could have been much better, closer, more exciting - but they weren't.
17. Being right becomes more important to us than being happy.
18. Unfortunately while we blame on others, the problem never gets solved, so blamers remain frustrated and miserable.
19. If you dont fix your life, who will?
20. Living on this planet is a privilege. If we want to enjoy the nice things of life, it is up to us to represent value to other people.
12. If you care for people because you want to, and not because you expect something back, you wont feel crushed should they fail to return a thought or a favor. The universe is essentially fair and just. If you are giving out care and affection, good things will come back at you, though not necessarily when or from where you expect it.
13. We each must recognise our own value. If we depend on others to do it - and they dont - were constantly disappointed.
14. You can only complement someone else in a relationship if you're a complete person.
15. Taking ourselves too seriously can also mean desperately trying to make an impression.
16. The ones who really suffer are those who know inside the things could have been much better, closer, more exciting - but they weren't.
17. Being right becomes more important to us than being happy.
18. Unfortunately while we blame on others, the problem never gets solved, so blamers remain frustrated and miserable.
19. If you dont fix your life, who will?
20. Living on this planet is a privilege. If we want to enjoy the nice things of life, it is up to us to represent value to other people.
Excerpt #1
1. "Thats just the way i am" is an expensive way to live a life.
2. Most people live lives of quiet desperation. We have our insecurities. Refuse to live in fear of a bunch of people who may, like you, be quietly desperate.
3. Outstanding individuals develop a special self awareness which endears them to others.
4. When we are over critical of ourselves, we tend to resent people who are doing better. Sometimes we are subconsciously hating ourselves so we find that something is wrong with other people. When others do well, we feel inadequate, so we get critical. The criticism has nothing to do with the accomplishment or others but it has to do with your own self-concept. You will never improve your relationship with others if you did not start to like yourself better.
5. Comparing ourselves is a trap.
6. You dont get out of a hole by pulling others into it. Love yourself first so others will love you too. Loving yourself is not a matter of boasting to all the world but it is a matter of self-acceptance.
7. To enjoy fruitful relationships, you have to choose to be your own bestfriend.
8. If you are perfect, youd be an angel. The fact that you are still a person gives you permission to make some mistakes.
9. While someone is miserable and depressed, one can only attract people who have big problems. Then they'll have twice the misery.
10. People who enjoy fulfilling, stable relationships are balanced people. They do not go looking for someone else to fill a hole. They recognise their own value. You have to be somebody first. Its no good being someone's other half - you are a whole person.
2. Most people live lives of quiet desperation. We have our insecurities. Refuse to live in fear of a bunch of people who may, like you, be quietly desperate.
3. Outstanding individuals develop a special self awareness which endears them to others.
4. When we are over critical of ourselves, we tend to resent people who are doing better. Sometimes we are subconsciously hating ourselves so we find that something is wrong with other people. When others do well, we feel inadequate, so we get critical. The criticism has nothing to do with the accomplishment or others but it has to do with your own self-concept. You will never improve your relationship with others if you did not start to like yourself better.
5. Comparing ourselves is a trap.
6. You dont get out of a hole by pulling others into it. Love yourself first so others will love you too. Loving yourself is not a matter of boasting to all the world but it is a matter of self-acceptance.
7. To enjoy fruitful relationships, you have to choose to be your own bestfriend.
8. If you are perfect, youd be an angel. The fact that you are still a person gives you permission to make some mistakes.
9. While someone is miserable and depressed, one can only attract people who have big problems. Then they'll have twice the misery.
10. People who enjoy fulfilling, stable relationships are balanced people. They do not go looking for someone else to fill a hole. They recognise their own value. You have to be somebody first. Its no good being someone's other half - you are a whole person.
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