Twin Flame Research 1

1. Soul mates can be brought into our lives in platonic friendships, or those meant to help change our lives -  we may have 10 different soul mates we experience in this lifetime, but there is only ever one Twin Flame. When we see 11:11 it means that our twin flame is ready to manifest itself physically in our lives. We may both be aware of the meeting of our energies that soon will take place -  there is often the feeling that something is going to happen soon. We are becoming more aware of the subtle energies and invisible thread that connects us.

2. 11:11 is a trigger number signaling that things are changing - mostly on a deep inner level. You are becoming aware of your soul self and are being alerted to this by your higher self and the universe.

3. Reunion is above all an energetic process of bringing both Twins' system into one whole - this is why all the past negativity is forced up to the surface in Ascension leading up to reunion, and this is why energy clearings are crucial on this journey.

4. And this is what the twin flame makes us confront. We see those "faults" in ourselves clearer than ever before. This scares us. We experience this great individual and it highlights to us all our faults. We are one, so we reflect each other and attract in to each other the really things we need to heal. The pain constantly comes prior to healing though. With the twin flame's presence we lastly need to confront those things, and on regular basis we dont wish to or arent ready. The extremely things about ourselves from because we have actually been so ashamed are lastly out in the open.

5. Coming face to face with the best and worst of who you are - twin flame mirror

6. Its a fight or flight situation and often twin souls / soul mates run. But remember, this running is needed in order for them to have the distance to make sense of it all and to force them to be with their own feelings to bring them to the surface when they have been laying dormant in the subconscious, reeking havoc. Granted, it could take years or lifetimes, but the point is, if you or your twin soul / soul mate are "running" then it is because this is part of your life path - to get the distance to make sense of this new reality. There is always a choice to either heal ourselves or keep running from ourselves and keep attracting unavailable people who will continue to bring up our issues until we heal them.

7. You are being pushed to heal all of your insecurity and need for validation outside of yourself. Everything that you experience with your Twin Flame is mirroring your own limiting, internal beliefs. The limitations of love that you have carried inside are coming out to be healed. That is why your Twin triggers your deepest pain - so that you can finally clear it. Your task is to see this and take responsibility. And to love yourself as much as you love your twin.

8. Know also that sometimes, the chaser is in fact the runner. They might us their twins lack of commitment or lack of awareness as an excuse to hide behind their own issues. As harsh as it sounds, many twins hide behind excuses that blame their twin, but they are only running away from themselves. They are delaying their own growth.

9. When you avoid all hiding and heal yourself, you will triumph. You unite yourself which is the most important union, and you energetically inspire your twin to do the same. You fulfill beautiful self, regardless of whether you are with your beloved or not.

10. Arguments and fights happens because negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.

Twin Flame 11:11

I believe I have found my twin flame.

That longing for the anima, the mirror, the self.

If i backtrack my blog today, there are seemingly pieces of puzzle before I actually realize to complete the last missing puzzle piece.

Before are just my soulmates, but meeting the twin flame is the highest form of a soulmate.

I never understand what 11:11 means when it was presented to me before, it was.. actually a sign my twin flame is just around the corner.

I will be waiting for my twin flame reunion, and when that happens, we will never be separated ever again.

1. But it turned out that this "unlearning" was not as complete. When they severed the neural connection between rats cortex and amygdala, the rats became afraid of the rats again. This was because the fear was suppressed by the activity of the cortex, but was still present in the amygdala. In humans with unwanted fears, like batophobia, or fear of heights, the same thing happens. Repeated trips to the top of Empire State building seem to distinguish the fear, but it may come roaring back during the time of stress - when the cortex has other things than soothe an excitable amygdala. 

2. Enjoyment appears at the boundary between boredom and anxiety, when the challenges are just balanced with the person's capacity to act.

3. Aggressive power beats you up, soft power wins you over.

4. Free trait agreement.

5. One noteworthy study suggest negative emotions tend to leak those emotions later in unexpected ways. 

6. It can be hard for extroverts to understand how badly introverts need to recharge at the end of the day. 

7. It can be hard for introverts to understand just how hurtful their silence can be.

1. Language can hardly express the lover’s confident, rapturous state of mind

2. In love, everything about the beloved seems thrilling.

3. Yet all these characteristics: the narrowing of our world, the obsession, the experience of obstacles as aphrodisiac, the inability to resist, are also symptoms of a kind of slavery to the substance or person that causes them.

4. Were we in the grip of a magnificent obsession fueled by the many obstacles in its path? Were we soul mates, or were we being pulled forward by compulsions and desires that take over from reason in situations where love is concerned?

5. I do not like to work with patients who are in love. Perhaps, it is because envy – I, too, crave enchantment. Perhaps, it is because love and psychotherapy are fundamentally incompatible. The good therapist fights darkness and seeks illumination, while the romantic love is sustained by mystery and crumbles on inspection. I hate to be love’s executioner – Stanford Psychiatrist, Irvin. D. Yacom

6. The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference. – Maggie Scarf

7. Addiction is defined by behavior, not by fantasy. With sexual behavior, as with alcoholism, addiction cant be measures by the amount of someone drinks or their number of sexual partners. Is everyone who get drunk an alcoholic? Certainly not.

8. Addicts with many different substances are able to control the effects of one by using another.

9. Overeating can diminish the pain of remorse

10. The rush of energy, the euphoria in the presence of a loved one, possessiveness and the heightened state of lovers when they are together is not exclusive to our species.
11. coup de foupre – love at first sight

12. A connection to another person which becomes the thrilling, delicious, sought after center of the world.

13. Being in love can feel like falling and soaring, it can make a person hot or cold, dizzy or calm.

14. Addiction is chronic or habitual use of any chemical substance to alter state of the body and mind for other than medically warranted purposes.

15. Psychological dependence is the subjective feeling that the user needs the drug to maintain a feeling of well being.

16. Physical dependence is characterized by tolerance (the need for increasingly larger doses in order to achieve the initial effect) and withdrawal symptoms when the user is abstinent.

17. Directly or indirectly, virtually all drugs of abuse affect a single pathway in the brain, the mesolimbic reward system, activated by dopamine.

18. Dopamine spike – an unnatural level of pleasure which, when it subsides, leaves pleasure levels lower than the normal.

19. When addicts find each other, and they seem to have some secret way of knowing who they are, they often bond over a shared life.

20. As he enters the obsessive trance, the metabolic responses are like rush through the body as endrogens speed up the body’s functioning. The heart pounds…

21. A love’s obsession – an oxymoron if there was one

22. My mind filled up wit yearning like a loc with open gates.

1. Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable/ Be honest and transparent anyway. - Mother Teresa

2. Five principle of authenticity

a. Know yourself

b. Transform your fear

c. Express yourself

d. Be bold

e. Celebrate who you are

3. Being bold is one of the most essential aspects of authenticity. Were not often trained or encouraged to be bold in life. Living our lives in bold and authentic way takes real courage and commitment. This does not mean that we are willing to act in the face of fear and able to say true to ourselves and whats important to us even when it gets difficult.

4. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

5. Having compassion with ourselves and embracing the dark parts of who we are is liberating.

1. Life is no straight and easy corridor along which we travel free and unhampered, but maze passages, through which we must seek our way, lost and confused, now and again checked in a blind alley. But always we have faith a door will open for us, not perhaps one that we ourselves would ever have thought of, but one that will ultimately prove good for us. - A.J. Cronin

2. When you stopped being afraid, you feel good!

3. The quicker you let go of the old cheese, the sooner you find the new cheese.

4. I am beginning to think there is more to this than I thought. I like the idea of letting go of old behavior instead of letting go of the relationship. Repeating the same behavior will just get you the same results.

5. As far as work goes, maybe instead of changing jobs, I should be changing the way I am doing the job. I'd probably have a better position if I did.

Barenaked

Vulnerability and transparency makes us real and makes us feel that we have given everything.

It was an amazing feeling to strip and be bold; barenaked.

I thought physical intimacy is the best way to get naked and make love but soul encounter is priceless. The connection is unexplainable: Euphoria... Dopamine rush and spikes... Its really great! Soul intercourse is the best experience Ive ever felt... It touched my heart and soul.

I gently strip my feelings, showing the truth: naked. Not hiding every piece of me and being in front of someone you love while wearing only your own skin and clear mind is definitely perfect. 

Now I realized why at the beginning of the story in Genesis (Bible) when Adam and Eve are naked. It just shows that when we are pure, we can go naked. But when we sin, we have to cover up to that and hide. Nothing beats being pure; makes life easier and happier to live in.