Saturday, August 31, 2013

Excerpt #2

11. “He should accept me as I am!” says the woman who is too nice.
Accept you? Oh no, sister. Slap yourself. He should want you
madly. Acceptance has nothing to do with it. He accepts a
doormat. But he desires his dreamgirl.” 

12. “The bitch is an empowered woman who derives tremendous strength from the ability to be an independent thinker, particularly in a world that still teaches women how to be self-abnegating. This woman doesn't live someone else's standards, only her own.” 

13. “If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.” 

14. “UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure To
give iT after your conditions have been meT ” 

15. “You always want what you cant have” 

16. “Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch.”

17. “Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.” 

18. “That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.” 

19. “When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.” 

20. “He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”

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