Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Qoute #88

In a glimpse of an eye
It will change everything
I dont know how to adopt right now
And Im afraid i cant handle it
But with your hands in mine
I know there is nothing to worry about

Hold me close dont let me go
Live with me in my memory
Keep me sane always

For tomorrow is another day
To write another story
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i know that in life
people come and go
and that things are changing
and that is something you cannot control
mostly all the time
changes are really hard and that
it can consume you as a person
changes, pressures, stress
this are some of the things i know are hard to handle
but i know that with God and with
all the people who cares for me
i know that ill be good
that i dont have to worry about a thing
i wish that these people wont leave me
like some of them do
so as to keep me alive
i wish that they will always be there for me
and that they wont leave me again
because i know everyday
will be different
and everyday will always be special

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Qoute #87

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Qoute #86

when i close my eyes i fall asleep
in my dreams i hold your hand
i kiss your tender lips
my fingers running in your hair
so soft i cant resist
i wake up to think that if dreams do come true
then why cant i tell you?

Monday, February 27, 2012

Qoute #85

There are times that i miss someone but i need not to tell them
Because telling them would only complicate things
Telling them would only hurt me
I am so afraid to try again....
I am so afraid that someone will leave me in the grave again..
dead and helpless...

Friday, February 24, 2012

Excerpt #2

11. The worst assholes consistently do two things:
A. put themselves ahead of clients
B. put themselves ahead of their company and their colleagues


12. When you validate a person, what you are really doing is giving them power - like a battery charger


13. Other Smart People Tricks
A. Show them the love
B. Assume the best
C. Cut loose the real losers
D. Keep teams together
E. Protect Yourself from energy suckers
F. When to divide and conquer


14. Save your passion and creativity for those people who will benefit from it and who leave you feeling charged up rather than drained.


15. I let them hide behind my skirt because when you are the boss, part of your job is to protect your people when they screw up.


16. The better your boss and your organization, the less you need to shield people

Friday, February 17, 2012

Excerpt #1

1. After you plant a seed in the ground, you don't dig it up every week to see how it is doing


2. Like salt in a sauce, too much overwhelms the dish too little is similarly distracting; but just the right amount allows the other flavors to dominate our experience.


3. Refusal to accept responsibility is also seen as a sign that nothing was learned or will be changed as a result of past setbacks and error.


4. Great bosses convince others they are in control when the shit hits the fan.


5. Recipe for an effective apology
A. No sugar coating
B. Take the blame fully.
C. Apologize fully
D. Take immediate control over what you can.
E. Explain what you have learned.
F. Communicate what you will do differently.
G. Get credit for improvements.


6. Tricks for taking charge
A. Talk more than others but not the whole time
B. Interrupt people occasionally and dont let then interrupt you much
C. Cross your arms when you talk
D. Use positive talks
E. try a little flash of anger every now and then
F. If you are not sure whether to sit or stand, stand up
G. Ask your people what they need to succeed and then try to give it to them
H. Tell people about your pet peeves and quirks.
I. Give away some power or status, but make sure everyone knows it was your choice


7. Fight as if you are right, listen as if you are wrong.


8. If you see something different, go ahead and disagree. I dont know all the answers.


9. Fight for what you believe, but gracefully accept defeat.


10. 11 Commandments for wise bosses
A. Have a strong opinions and weakly held beliefs
B. Do not treat others as it they are idiots
C. Listen attentively to your people, dont just pretend to hear what they say
D. Ask a lot of good questions
E. Ask others for help and gratefully accept their assistance
F. Do not hesitate to say "I dont know"
G. Forgive people when they fail, remember the lessons and teach them to everyone
H. Fight as if you are right, and listen as if you are wrong
I. Do not hold grudges after losing an argument. Instead, help the victors implement their ideas with all your might
J. Know your foibles and flaws, and work with people who correct and compensate for your weakness
K. Express gratitude to your people

Monday, December 26, 2011

Maid in Manhattan

"sometimes When life Closes a door, it opens a window so jump"

- after a long time ago, this is the first time i actually watched this movie.