Sunday, July 7, 2013

Excerpt #1

1. You'll never win a zombie heart
2. I love you and we will fall together, i will never leave you
3. With true love, there will always be a change of heart
4. This was the key to the cure, you start to connect with us..
5. In the end, the wall between us will break and we will live happily ever after.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Excerpt #2

11. Many people never get to become high performers because their managers concentrate on catching them doing wrong.

12. Performance review is an ongoing process, not something you do only once a year.

13. Their behavior is not OK. They are OK. Eliminate the behavior and keep the people. 

14. If you are first tough on the behavior and then supportive on the person, then it works.

15. Tell people what they did wrong, tell people how you feel about it, and reminding people that they are valuable and worthwhile.

Excerpt #1

1. If you cant tell me that you'd like to be happening, you dont have a problem yet. You are just complaining. A problem only exist if there is a difference between what is actually happening and what you desire to be happening.

2. People who feel good about themselves produce good results

3. Help people reach their full potential catch them doing something right.

4. One Minute goal to read on one minute. 

5. Since he does not attack me as a person - only my behavior- its easier for me not to become defensive.

6. Realize when the reprimand is over, its over 

7. the best minute i spend is the one i invest in people

8. how long would he want to bowl if there were no pins?

9. Everyone is a potential winner, some people are disguised as losers, don't let their appearances fool you.

10. Look at your goals, loot at your performance, see if your behavior matches your goal.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Art of Persuasion

1. Persuasion is just like any other art form or practice. There will always be time when you fail because you made a miscalculation or a wrong step. If and when this happens you must carry on. Learn from your mistake and recalculate. Once you have taken the time to step back, level your head and recalculate, you will know whether or not it is a lost cause or if a new plan of attack is to be put on. In simpler terms, try and try again. Don't let failure keep you down.

2. You must make sense with your target otherwise indirect and unclear contact can mislead your target and cause your plan to derail. E.g. Dont hesitate to call is much better said as call me tomorrow. This direct and positive approach ensures an understanding between parties and move you one step closer to the goal of the game.

3. Timing is of an essence. A fatigue mind is much more submissive than that of a well rested mind. Try to approach your target after something mentally taxing, such as studying for a test, a long day at work, or working on a project. More often than not, they will agree because they are in an exhausted state.

4. Knowing what your target likes will always give you the advantage in the game of persuasion. It may even serve as a protection or a get out of jail free card when most needed.

5. While speaking to your target keep your language poetic. Its not necessary what you say, but how you say it.

6. A common mistake is confusing understanding with acceptance in terms of point of view. It is vital to your game that you never allow mutual understanding to your agenda. Your agenda is to change the targets view to match your own, not the other way around. Understand them but don't believe them.

7. It is said that people who show weakness get killed by those who lack them.

8. Emotions played correctly can win someone over.

9. Always keep your focus on the end result.

10. A perfect character isn't only unrealistic, they are boring. While lack of realism is easily forgiven, there is no excuse for being boring.


Tuesday, December 25, 2012

I am a highly functioning sociopath


The 10 signs of a sociopath.

by High Functioning Sociopath on Tuesday, November 6, 2012 at 9:15am ·
  1. Sociopaths are charming. Sociopaths have high charisma and tend to attract a following just because people want to be around them. They have a "glow" about them that attracts people who typically seek guidance or direction. They often appear to be sexy or have a strong sexual attraction. Not all sexy people are sociopaths, obviously, but watch out for over-the-top sexual appetites and fetishes.
  2. Sociopaths are more spontaneous and intense than other people. They tend to do bizarre, sometimes erratic things that most regular people wouldn't do. They are unbound by normal social contracts. Their behavior often seems irrational or extremely risky. Generally they cannot be read by most people due to their ever changing behaviour.
  3. Sociopaths are incapable of feeling shame, guilt or remorse. Their brains simply lack the circuitry to process such emotions. This allows them to betray people, threaten people or harm people without giving it a second thought. They pursue any action that serves their own self interest even if it seriously harms others.
  4. Sociopaths seek to dominate others and "win" at all costs. They hate to lose any argument or fight and will viciously defend their honour, even to the point of logical absurdity.
  5. Sociopaths tend to be highly intelligent, but they use their brainpower to deceive others rather than empower them. Their high IQ's often make them dangerous. This is why many of the best-known serial killers who successfully evaded law enforcement were sociopaths.
  6. Sociopaths speak poetically. They are master wordsmiths, able to deliver a running "stream of consciousness" monologue that is both intriguing and hypnotic. They are expert storytellers and even poets. 
  7. Sociopaths never apologize. They often feel they are never wrong. They never feel guilt. They can rarely apologize. Even if shown proof that they were wrong, they will be reluctant to apologize and instead go on the attack.
  8. Sociopaths can regress their state of mind rapidly. They often start off with small risks and erratic bahaviour which often leads to stronger and more heinous acts and even violence. If you anger or irritate a sociopath it can be very dangerous.
  9. Sociopaths are secretive. They do not like their personal information to be commonly known or people asking them questions. They will often lie or deflect questions as to avoid giving away personal details.
  10. Sociopaths are highly perceptive. They can notice the smallest thing or change in anything and remember most things they see and encounter.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Qoute #93

If you stopped worrying about tomorrow, wouldn't that give you more time to actually enjoy and savor today?

Trust your crazy ideas..

Your imagination is the preview to life's coming attractions.

if you have something to say to a loved one, don't wait until tomorrow. Too late comes sooner than later.


How will you change the world?

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money or the most awards. They are the ones who care.

Live your life so that your children can tell their children that you not only stood for something wonderful- you acted on it.

Qoute #92

There has never been another you. 
You are once-in-all-history event. 
You are new nature.
You are one of a kind, no one can really predict the heights you may soar.
Even you will not know until you spread your wings. 
You may not be able to see your undeveloped potential, but its there - and its enormous.